One with the Wind

birthdays

2011-01-05T13:16:00.003+10:00

Today my daughter Nicole turns 37, we travelled down to surprise her and spend time with her, but alas it was not meant to be,Barry had a hypo and we headed home after only 1 and 1/2 hrs, but she was so nice about it all, I felt cheated as I rarely get to spend time with them these days.
They are going to the pics to see Narnia, which is a lovely way to spend ones birthday.
Happy Birthday my sweet child.

2011

2011-01-04T20:08:00.003+10:00

Well I thought his year was going to be my positive year, but sadly it started with my dear cousin losing his life at 11.58 approx New Years Day in a motor bike accident R.I.P.
We had a lovely Christmas here with family and friends and then a quiet but very enjoyable New Year with some special friends.
Then it rained and it rained and it rained, yes Warwick was flooded. Alot of people were affected but not us or mum. The water has travelled and built up and devastated areas of Queensland.
Our weather report has just said we are in for more heavy falls,this will break alot of people.
My little Bric a Brac Barn is now open 4 days a week, Barry and I are enjoying gathering the goodies from all over to put in the shop.
Oh yes thats right, I would like to introduce you all to my husband as from 9/1/2010 he is Barry, and I think he is pretty special , he makes me smile and laugh and looks after me pretty good. It is nice having someone loving me again.
We have had our share of dramas in 2010 but have survived. Our familys are all well and we love each one of them. My mum is still going strong 85yrs young, she looks after the shop and does a great job of it, I feel it has given her a new lease on life. Well thats all for now ,but will be staying in blogger land now.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KEN

2007-05-10T09:35:00.001+10:00

NEVER FORGOTTEN, FOREVER LOVED

I have been reflecting over the past four years without you, my life has taken some very different roads and I guess will continue to do so.

Death is such a final event, one which continues to be hard to bear.

Today would have been your 58th birthday and if you were here we would have celebrated with the family. Your daughter is becoming a beautiful person in her own right,her children (your grandchildren) are unique little human beings who bring alot of happiness to us all.I know you are around us and witness their ups and downs.

I am now working ,this fills the void in my life,I am also trying to learn ballroom dancing,but over the years I seem to have acquire two left feet,but I shall win ,I may never be a competition dancer but will be able to hold my own on the dance floor.

The winter is slowly enveloping us, it is time for the fire in the evening and warm tasty home cooked meals in front of it.

I count my blessings every day that you were part of my life, we shared many good times and some not so good , but together we made it thru.

I feel so alone without you beside me,everyone else has someone to share their life story with.

Why did you have to leave? We still had so many dreams to fulfill.

All of you who have a partner cherish them, remember one day they may not be there.

Happy Birthday forever my guy.

Holidays,Family,Time For Reflection

2007-04-08T23:38:00.000+10:00

Happy Easter

Another Easter break has nearly passed,it was just yesterday when I waas hiding the eggs in my next door neighbours yard for the very exciting egg hunt. This year we kept the egg hunt inside,due mainly to the presence of four little canines. My family have had a lovely visit and my grandchildren are growing fast.They are so full of the wonders of life,they keep their great grandparents entertained with their antics. I gave their parents the night off and sent them to the pictures, they saw Wild Hogs, which gave them a good laugh. Tomorrow I am spending the morning teaching my granddaughter how to gain confidence on her two wheeler (bike) I have told her she is now to old for training wheels. My grandson left his bike at home, he knows what Grandma is like, what he hasnt realised is that he will aslo be learning albeit on his sisters bike. I will post some pics of my success,I know they both can achieve it, they just dont know it yet.
I hope you have all celebrated this Easter break as happily as I am.
I hope blogger lets me post some pics, here goes.

Pictures maybe

2007-04-02T18:59:00.000+10:00

Happy Days

2007-04-02T18:15:00.000+10:00

Life is good.
The last few weeks have seen a baby born,friends turning eighty, poppy getting the all clear from his gastrologist and me passing another assignment.
Hearing from some old and dear friends,making acquaintenances.
A baby boy 7lb born to our neighbours daughter, mother and child both well after a minor hiccup with jaundice. Nanny over the moon.
A very dear friend from my childhood days turned eighty and is still very fit and active.
Poppy underwent an endoscopy and colonoscopy and has the all clear.
I have started walking the river track again ,I do the full circuit and poppy does a half circuit at his pace, we are both enjoying it and thats what it is all about.
I have passed another one of those assignments only 20 to go.
I took mum and dad off to a beautiful winery last Saturday, its was a charity event for our childrens hospital in Queensland,it was Priscilla in the vineyard theme, we had a lovely three course dinner and then we laughed and laughed at the main entertainer.The actor (who was the drag queen) was very talented and had the audience in the palm of his hand, then we were treated to a magician(very clever) after numerous raffles and auctions we were entertained by a 20 piece big band,mum and dad were tired by this time so it was in the car for the 3/4 hr trip home.
I have blogged some pics for you, the first is a tired mum and baby just born. the second the front page of the programme,
the third is mum and dad having dinner the fourth is the river we walk around.
I thank you all for visiting me and hope your life is fun and you are enjoying your life journey(we only get one chance so enjoy the present time)
I am so sorry but blogger is refusing to publish pictures will try on another post

Once A Week

2007-03-20T20:46:00.000+10:00

Today is another Tuesday in this beautiful world.
I will do my best to place a post every Tuesday, it is a day when I have attended my course and am so full of information I need to unwind, I think posting is a brilliant way of doing this.
Last Thursday I drove down to the Goldcoast (160 klms )and picked up my friend who lost her husband 12mnths ago, I stayed the night and then fixed some sun blinds to her bathroom windows the next morning before heading back home to Warwick. We have a great time and laugh alot, she is finishing the frogs whilst I go to my course.I will take some pics and show you all the finished mural.
It is good therapy for her, being up here with us all.
Poppy got an excellent report from his oncologist, but I am noticing a decline in his health,it is not good, but he is still trying to get on top of it.
Mum has also been a bit off colour,I am not sure what her problem is, she is tired alot.I hope its only because she was given a big stack of books and she is an avid reader ( you cannot get her away from a good book)The gypsy is back on the road heading for Nth Qld, he texts me just to let me know he is ok.
I have decided to go on and am enjoying the things I am doing and where I am at in my life.
I am heading back to the Goldcoast this Thursday, to drop Pam off and then driving on to Lismore another few hrs away with my neighbour Di, we are babysitting her grandchildren for two days, then back home Sunday.
Who said life is dull, they should come visit for awhile.
I neglected to tell you we took Pam to a few of the wineries not far from here, she loved it,we also visited the local lavender farm.I forgot the camera, sorry.
Well my many friends I will endeavour to visit you over the next few days.
Keep smiling its contagious.
Bye for this week
Gail
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2007-03-11T12:04:00.000+10:00

My water urn on the back porch.

My Japanese fisherman

The frogs on one of my tanks not yet finished.

Nics drew them and my friend and I are painting them .

I have been go, go, going, It has been soooo hectic but now I get to draw breath. Thankyou to one and all who have left messages on my last post.

A Family W/end(Bellas birthday)

2007-03-04T21:46:00.000+10:00

Its Sunday evening and I have remade beds tidied the house,oeganised tea for my parents and spent time on the phone reassurring my father-in-law(who has had two bouts of angina, which can be scary)

My beautiful Isabella Rose turned 7 today,it seems only yesterday that we were celebrating the birth of my beautiful grandaughter.

My family joined us in Warwick to celebrate and I did my best to make it special for her and her great grandparents (these occasions are their gift in life as well)

I have blogged some pics so you can join our fun times as a family.

We spent Saturday at home,after I picked up my new second hand holden,I traded the Ford in,a sedan will be better for me now.

I had invited my neighbours and the gypsy for a barbeque tea,which was lots of fun,everyone appeared to enjoy themselves.

Isabella or bella to me got such fun gifts, all given with so much love,her face was so alive and full of joy.

Sunday we had morning tea and another cake, before setting off to one of my special places,the Japanese gardens in Toowoomba.Which is 40mins drive from here.Bella said to me "This is so beautiful grandma' it made my heart sing to know she could see the beauty and serenity,at such a young age.

Then it was off to maccas(Mcdonalds) for lunch,this was a new experience for the great grandparents, but they really enjoyed it as well.

After time out for Bella and Harry (my special grandson) my family hit the road for their three hour trip home.

It was a family w/end one to remember Isabellas 7th Birthday.I hope your week is as happy a mine is going to be.

My Life, The gypsy and The Barn.

2007-02-25T20:52:00.000+10:00

I have just returned from five days retreat

at a dear friends home on our beautiful Gold coast.
I needed to take some time out from my life here in Warwick.
I have a dear friend whom I met nearly three years ago,

we have what you would call a very on /off relationship.

He travels this beautiful country in his motorhome,

and works when its necessary, to enable him to roam on.

The one hitch, I fell for him, hook line and sinker.

My timing is wrong and he isnt ready for a commitment,

so we both choose to antagonise the other,

which gives us the excuse to walk away without feeling guilty.

Oh what a position to be in. Thankfully we are mature enough

to work through these times and just make the most of any time we get.

There is an old verse that goes; if you love someone,

let them go and if they return its meant to be, or something like that.

I have let him go.

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Now to the barn, I have hopefully placed some pics

for you to see of the old barn transformed.

I still have the courtyard to finish between the two rooms.

I have to go back to work now as that old money tree refuses to give me any more.
I have started a course so I can hopefully get back into the work force.

It's funny going to class at 56 with all the other students so much younger.....

but it is also fun. My first assignment is due in a week, so please, wish me luck.

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My beautiful parents celebrated their 59th wedding anniversary

on Valentines day, as a gift I gave them air tickets to Adelaide (where they honeymooned)

and then on to Perth (WA) so they can catch up with some old and dear friends.
I hope to stay in touch... the pics are of the gypsy.... and of the barn.

2006-10-03T23:35:00.000+10:00

A Deserted Homestead

A Deserted Church

The Waterfall, it drops an incredible distance

Dad And Mum looking At the Water fall

Taking Time

2006-10-03T22:15:00.000+10:00

Hello dear friends,
I have been away fom the blogging world, due to everyday duties and the caring of my parents and the renovating of this our home.
Where to start, I have been taking my parents on exploring day trips, we have found some places of awesome beauty ,an unbelievable water fall , that you drive through a paddock to view, which had numerous wallabies and kangaroos grazing with the cattle and red tailed black cockatoos screeching out their welcome.I will try to post the pics,but they do not do the place justice.
The second trip was a little further away, into a place called the Boonoo Boono National park,but as the two little companions were with us we had to turn away at the entrance,(no domestic animals) not that these two think they are animals more like miniture humans. Anyway as is our thing we went off the beaten track (so to speak) and discovered an old family plot(cemetary) dated 1879 for a family Cook and not far was a group of dainty orchids growing, my father later identified it in one of our gardening books.We travelled to some special places this day and I often wondered who travelled these tracks before us. I took some pics of the deserted homestead and church.
I have had my dad to the Docs and they are extremely pleased with the way he has healed and come out of the radium treatment .he does easily tire these days,he also gets frustrated when he is unable to do as much,but I think he is to hard on himself.
We have finished installing our stain glassed cockatoo in the barn and I have taped all the plaster panel joins and dad has been busy filling the joins ready for me to sand. We will be attempting the roof next, I dont feel it will be as hard as the rest it looks pretty straightforward,its all in the preparation so dad tells me.
The garden has been taking alot of my time, it has needed weeding, feeding and mulching,after 11 bails of sugar cane mulch it is ready for the summer heat.
I have also completely redone where the front lawn was, it is now a garden awaiting the plants, it took 9metres of soil and 8 bales of mulch, but should look pretty neat by the time its completed.
Today was my mums birthday so I packed her into the car and we went shoppping to Toowoomba which is an hours drive North and has alot more to offer shopping wise. We came home with alot of goodies including an assortment of plants which will be my chores for tomorrow.
So for now I will say bye and hope you are all smiling

Sunday All Day

2006-09-17T18:12:00.000+10:00

The evening sky. Once again mother nature is experimenting with color and the softness of each minute was to me breathtaking, this time of day, is when I feel the closest to my inner self. Yes we had a little rain as well.

Updates

2006-09-14T22:14:00.000+10:00

I have been busy being a lazy person,my body just stopped for awhile and I had to slow down.I went to my first lapidary meeting on Wednesday.It was great, I learnt to use the grinder and then the first stage of the flat wheel polisher. I will take some pics next week so you can see what I am talking about. The people were really nice,yes I think I am going to enjoy this new hobby.
I have taken a pic of the toilet and hand basin dad has literally rebuilt for the barn,I am pleased to report they are up and running.I also took a picture of the barn,,they show the plaster in place ready for the touch up work and the roof which will be a challenge as I am keeping the high roof and having the cross beams exposed,it will take awhile but i know what to do, just have to get the steam up.

this picture shows a portion of the back garden,showing the new growth.Alot will be going on in my house after next week as school holidays start and that means I get to see my beautiful daughter and two precious grandchildren for a whole week,I am going to take young Harry fishing,then Bella and I might hit the shops,my daughter is going to help me with the plastering up of all the joints and hopefully take a break enjoying her grandparents company. We have had the coldest blustery winds for the previous few days, but today was once again warm and pleasant,I must away as i have friends to visit in blogger land,bye,stay happy.

A Wet Sunday

2006-09-10T17:42:00.000+10:00

It was an unusual sound to wake up to, yes it was raining.
I had decided yesterday to take my parents on a drive to a little town named Allora, you see the cattle and sheep dogs were competing in a competition and they are awsome to watch ,such control and obedience.
After our latest visitors hit the road, heading down south to their home, we headed off ,it was still raining, but I felt it was worth the effort.
Arriving just after 12md, it was a shock to see everyone packing up (maybe next time)
Instead of turning around and heading for home, we took another road up into the goomburra national park.
The scenery was typical bush Oz,but we saw an eagle perched on a fence and nextdoor to it was a fox.I had disturbed their luch .
After driving for awhile we came to the park, whiich is set up for the camper and trekker,very very nice.
On the way back home we picked some mushrooms, which I cooked up for tea, one of my dads favourite food.
The ford escape is covered in mud and looks like I have been mud bashing, so I did the lazy thing and left it out in the rain.
below are a couple of pics .

Mum and dad reading about Goomburra national Park.
Not bad for a couple of eighty year olds
This board explains about the fauna and flora and the history.
These are our Victorian visitors(either end) leaving for home saying goodbye to my parents

An Old Barn Two

2006-09-06T23:11:00.000+10:00

I hope you enjoy this as much as I.

An old Barn

2006-09-06T22:56:00.000+10:00

Well what a find,I took everyone for a drive today ,we went to a town called Killarney and did some sight seeing. Then after lunch, we went off the beaten track up an old road called acacia ridge road. Dad had read a book about the area we live in and the beginning of dairy farming , so off we go to find this area and not far up the road is a barn (literally in the middle of nowhere) It is called the Blue cow mural,It was completed in 2002 .
Our visitors could not believe what they were seeing,neither could we, It is a barn completely painted with this mural,someone had put alot of effort into it ,amd we were one of the priviledged few who would ever see it,
So I decided to share it with you all, sorry it is in two parts but thats blogger for you.

Time To Reflect

2006-09-05T23:40:00.000+10:00

After a few rather hectic days , of achieving quite alot in and around this old house,yesterday the sad news of Steve Irwins death, made me stop and question what I was doing.
It dawned on me that I was so busy either looking after someone, or always doing something I was breaking my own rule, of taking time out to enjoy life.
Today would have been (or Is) my 36th wedding anniversary and I still find I want or need to feel his hand in mine or his touch as he passes by or just his smile that was just for me from his heart. I guess that is why I dont stop it still hurts to reflect on what was and is no more.
(enough I say)
My pain was put away as visitors arrived, on their way back from Darwin, thats the capital of the Northern Territory,they had been visiting their son and family and are on there way home to Mildura in Victoria. Such a lovely down to earth couple,I met them on my way around Australia 3yrs ago.
I will be busy showing them some of the sights around Warrick, for the next few days.
I am happy Spring is here,I will take pics soon of the work Dad and I have been doing in the barn and around the house, just to update you all.
I hope you and yours are well and happy.
Bye till next post.

Some more pics from our Friday

2006-09-01T22:08:00.000+10:00

An early pioneer bark hut, the building on the left is the bedroom

This is the date the hut was occupied
A bullock team.
A steam engine hauling all this. Blogger will not let me put any more pics here, so have a good w/end and smile.

A trip For Friday

2006-09-01T21:27:00.000+10:00

Firstly some sad news Mr Frog has passed on, I knew he was old but he had a lovely last couple of days,He rests beneath a small gardenia plant.
We were all up early this am, as I had promised mum we would take her to visit the Jondaryan woolshed, situated nth west of Warwick about 2hours travelling time.
It is very well presented and we spent 3hours exploring watching and enjoying all that was on offer.
I have taken photos of some of the exhibits ,but their were alot more . It was the Australian Heritage Festival and they had one of the best and most extensive exhibits of working steam run engines ,my dad had ever seen. He and all the boys (big and little) were having the time of their lives.
The picture to my left is a homestead, typical of early queensland times.
No2 pic is such a quaint cottage garden .

This is the kitchen inside the above cottage and the lady dressed in period clothes had just made a batch of scones,in the old stove.

Nothing ventured nothing gained

2006-08-30T20:18:00.000+10:00

Well what a day, I couldn't drag these old bones out of bed this morning ,I was in meltdown mode,but I knew the washing and the garden were waiting so (in slow motion) I arose got dressed and hit the laundry, but the water was flowing so slow it took 15minutes to fill the tub, well I knew something was amiss, so off I went Ms Fix it, but to no avail.By the time I had eliminated all the things it could be it had fixed itself (maybe an air pocket)
Next came the garden, I had some mint I had to thin out before it took over the garden bed it was in and the lawn had some bindi grass starting to grow (this is a weed that has very sharp little pods that cling to everything and are hard to get out of a dogs coat) I have decided to remove them instead of spraying as Mr Frog is still in residence.
Today was overcast with the promise of rain, but it was so light when it came the washing dried.
I have taken it on myself to join a lapidary club (rocks and things) I am going to learn to facet gemstones and make jewellery,it is only a small club ,but very well equipped and they are so friendly, many years ago I collected speciman rocks and my dad used to tumble pebbles, which showed off their hidden beauty, I am going one step further, I hope I havent left it to late.
The first trip will be to a private property where Garnets are found, my daughters birth stone, with a lot of luck I might find a decent specimen to make her something.
I hope you are all having a good week so far,if not ,(It helps To smile) or (Have A Good Cry) whichever eases tension within.
Hugs to you all Gail

Our Mr frog

2006-08-28T19:23:00.000+10:00

Whilst I lay quietly in my bed listening to the rain, I heard a distinctive noise of a frog outside my window, yes it was Mr frog and then in the distance was a reply,slightly different. I thought when i arose this morning Mr frog would have gone, but no, there he was as snug as a frog could be in his new home. If you look closely you can see him peering out at the world. In the second picture I just dropped the camera down and pressed the button, you can just see him snuggled up in the far corner

This is Mr frogs human built abode, we are going to add a couple more rocks to ensure he is out of sight.Hopefully he will stay awhile.

Something different

2006-08-27T21:21:00.000+10:00

This little frog or actually large frog was in our garden today, he didnt look to happy with the world, so I built him a hideaway with rocks and gave him a small plate filled with water to spend the day.I think he is a Northern Banjo Frog and he is a burrowing type, hopefully he will have improved by tonite and will make his way home.

Just another angle

These are a pic of a gift I received from my aunt whilst she was here.They are my grandmothers engagement ring and her watch, she was married at 17 and died at 96, the watch was a present to her from my grandad on their wedding day.This now means I have both my grandmothers watches and ones wedding ring and the others engagement ring.Treasures to pass down to my daughter and grandaughter.
The pics of the frog were taken with my new camera, the jewellery with my old one (I like this thing they call zoom)
well with all that has been going on around me, it didnt work out with KH, he was a lovely guy but my life at this time is committed to my family and it is hard for someone to just fit in.I am content although grumpy at times, when I get tired (normal)
Life can be great one minute and then the rug is pulled from under your feet and you are either left sitting on your butt wondering what happened and why, or you are balancing it all thru and getting on with it, I choose to just get on with it. Go with my energy flows,they seem to steer me in the right direction for this lifetime.
enough ramblings, its good to be back , bye for now.

Its time To Return

2006-08-21T20:46:00.000+10:00

Hello to all my blogging friends,
To say things have been hectic in the last month would be an understatement. Nicole (Little Miss Arty)has kept you all up to date with the comings and goings of our family.
I have some breathing space,my uncle has returned to his home safely, he will be seeing his on doctor Monday and they will organise the next step in his treatment.Hopefully there is not any nasties to be found on his parathyroid gland.
My dad is progressing well, the area he had radium treatment to has completly healed, he still has a little fluid retention under his chin,but this too will dissipate in time. He has been back out in the barn, putting up a hand rail on the stairs,like any old tradesman he started with nothing and ended up with a good solid finish,now we have something to grab onto as we climb the stairs.
I have not had time to spend out in the barn,but am looking forward to getting amongst it again soon.
Well, I know it isnt the beginning of September yet, but spring is here, the trees are budding and the wattles are blooming and the cherry blossoms are out.The birds are building their nests, the animals are having babies and the day temperature is warm.
Its time to get the garden out of hibernation and into the growing season, I have to feed, weed and water.
Thankyou to all of you who kept in touch via my e-mail and a special thankyou to Peggy for my lovely gift,some things to treasure.
Oh, I bought myself a camera, nothing flash,its a sony and when I read up on it, watch out you will be inundated with pics.
I found this verse and would like to share it with you.

THE PRINCIPLE OF GIVING AND RECEIVING
MAY BE A BASIC LAW OF CREATION, BUT WE'RE
NOT BORN KNOWING IT! AS A MATTER OF FACT
WE COME INTO THIS WORLD TAKING,GRASPING,
CLINGING TIGHT. WE HAVE TO LEARN TO GIVE,
LEARN TO SHARE, LEARN TO THINK OF OTHERS.

Forgetting oneself is not a refinemnt of love.
It is a first condition of love.

No Time To Breathe

2006-07-13T20:02:00.000+10:00

Hi to you all and thankyou for your supportive comments, but alas I need to take a few weeks away , to enable me to channel my energies where they are most needed,that my dearest friends is with my dad, who you know is going thru the final weeks of radium treatment.I find I am a little stretched and therefor ask you all to be patient., I will be back. My beautiful daughter Nics will keep you up to date with all thats happening within our family circle.
Bye for Now
Stay happy and positive
Gail

2006-07-10T22:46:00.000+10:00

Kenneth Maxwell Batty

10th May 1949

9th July 2003

Father, Husband and Grandfather.

Rest in Peace my Love.

I have an angel on my shoulder,

He whispers in my ear.

His voice is soft and gentle,

And no one else can hear.

When I'm tired and lonely,

It's comfort that he brings.

When I'm filled with happiness,

I can hear his laughter ring.

My angel's very close to me,

I call him by his name.

And though I cannot see him,

I love him just the same.

He now has no more suffering,

And gone is all his pain.

I believe with all my heart,

We'll someday meet again.

An angel's job is taxing,

It's as hard as it can be.

I hope he does'nt get too tired,

Looking after me.

Yes, my angel's with me,

From morning til the night.

I know as long as he is here,

Everything will be alright.

So when my days are over,

I'll not pass in fear.

I know my angel's waiting,

to lead me home up there.

Time To Catch Up

2006-07-06T19:24:00.000+10:00

The Motor Home Fits Well In Our Yard

I bet you all have given up on me, well I'am still here.
As you have all read the wedding and its preparation all went well, It took a little time for me to recover from this and also the trips twice a week to Brissy.
A good sleep in for a few days and only attending to basic chores has recharged the old batteries.
I had a recall back to the doctors for more blood tests and it would seem they know there is something not right with my autoimmune system we just have to find out what it is.
In the mean time my life goes forward, I have had a friends son here for two days, helping chop the wood and tidy the place up generally, he is a goood kid and no trouble to have around.
Then today my late husbands brother and wife arrived for a visit, they have travelled up from NSW in their motorhome, quite an achievement for my sister-in-law, as she is not good at travelling long distances.I am not sure how long they are staying ,but hopefully for awhile.
I am going to have quite a housefull for the w/end as I go to Brissy tomorrow to pick up dad and mum and Nics and family plus one extra are all up for the w/end. Nothing like a home full of family to warm the heart.
Dad is half way thru his treatment, he is still coping very well and has it all under control.
I am truly blessed to have all these beautiful people here to share a w/end.
My next door neighbours husband is slowly improving
, so I guess the sun is shining in Warwick Qld.

Tuesday Tuesday Tuesday

2006-07-04T10:53:00.000+10:00

What a week it has been. The wedding went off without a hiccup. I am just so relieved for my mate Di that everything went so smoothly. Nics and I worked hard to make sure the cake and veil were just so! Nics and the grankids arrived after lunch on wednesday and we got stuck into the cake after dinner and finished it up about midnight. I think we did a pretty good job of it. I was on my way to bed when I found our newest house guest had made himself comfortable in my bed..... after a few stern words, he settled down with some new friends he made at the end of my bed.

Here's some proof of the pudding! This is me arguing with the glue. I am trying to glue crystal beads onto the outer edge of the cake boards.

This is Di and me all dressed up for the wedding. She wore the purple outfit to the church and the black and teal outfit to the reception.

Rachel, Di's daughter, looked beautiful... as did the bridesmaids.

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I am so tired now that I could sleep for weeks... so I am back to bed for some much needed R & R. Before I go though... I would like to say a huge thankyou to one of my sweetest friends, Kali, for the most generous gift I found on my doorstep this morning. Thank you sweetheart, you have brightened up my day considerably.... talk soon, Gail xox.... yawn!

2006-06-28T00:01:00.000+10:00

These are the two pictures that blogger would'nt let me post yesterday. They were meant to go with the poem... so please take a minute to re-read it if you please, and then look at the pictures lol. xox Gail.

Monday another Monday

2006-06-26T19:17:00.000+10:00

It was a good weekend, I drove to Brisbane on Friday and picked up Mum and Dad from their unit. Dad appears to have come thru the first week of treatment with a great attitude. I have been trying to fit the garden into my daily routine as well, but run out of time. Dad and I have finished the lining of one of the other walls in the barn, we only have the two ends to do, then the lining of the roof. Then we can start the plastering and then the painting... it sounds so easy (if only). This morning I drove Mum and Dad back to Brisbane for another week of radium. Nics and the grandkids arrive on wednesday to finish off the wedding cake and spend some time with me of course. I am going to supervise Nics to make sure she does'nt lick her fingers too much with all that chocolate ganache. Now my friends I am going to retire for a while, as I really want to watch the soccer in the wee hours of the morning. Once again thankyou for the support for my family thru these times of trial.
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I would like to share a verse with those of you who have lost a loved one over recent times. .
In a harbour two ships sailed.
One setting forth on a voyage.
The other home to port.
Everyone cheered the ship going out.
But the ship sailing in was barely noticed.
To this the wise man replied.
Do not rejoice over a ship setting out to sea.
For you cannot know
what terrible storm it may have to endure.
Rather rejoice over the ship
that has safely reached port.
And brings its passengers home in peace.
And this is the way of the world.
When a child is born all rejoice.
When someone dies all weep.
We should do the opposite.
For no-one can tell.
What trials and tribulations.
Await the newborn child.
For when a mortal dies
in peace we should rejoice.
For they have completed a long journey.
And there is no greater joy,
than to leave this world.
With the imperishable crown of a good name.
"author not known"

Its Not A Nice Day

2006-06-20T22:45:00.000+10:00

Well, Tuesday snuck up on me. I am not sure what happened to Monday, but I did not want to get up today. The clouds were grey and looked promising for rain, or snow (just joking about the snow). The temp tried real hard and succeeded to reach the double figures, but the chill factor was present. I did the floors and the bathrooms, then decided to read a book beside the fire,which is burning around the clock at the moment. After snuggling into my favourite chair with a lovely hot tea, you guessed it the doorbell rang. Visitors, a friend from town and her partner, popped in with my two bags of mulch they had kindly picked up for me. On with the kettle and after a nice long chat and a cuppa or two they were off. By this time I had three little pooches lookin for tea, so the book was placed away for another day. My next door neighbour whose partner is in hospital in Brissy, is in for dinner tonite, so have to get organised.
I have taken some pics of the two outfits we bought for the mother of the bride, and if blogger allows will post now, why dont you help her choose. Also a shot of our heater and my chair, and some pics of some of the oil paintings, mainly Australian scenes we have decorating our walls. Have a good week.

This is the wedding cake that Di & myself picked out. Nic's is going to do it in dark chocolate mud cake with gold crowns and white crystals (she think's). I will post photo's of it's construction.

Sunday So Busy

2006-06-18T21:35:00.000+10:00

Hello my dear friends,
Today was the day to take Dad and Mum to Brisbane for the 6 week stint of radium therapy. We got away early so we could pay a visit to our neighbour who is recovering from a partial lung resection, his wife Di was with us.
After settling mum and dad into their unit which will be home for 6weeks, Di and I went shopping, to buy her mother of the bride outfit (the wedding is in 2 weeks).
Well we went from shop to shop and Di was becoming quite stressed , the last shop had two outfits which looked super on her and as she couldn't decide we took both.
We arrived back home at 6.30pm to three very anscious little dogs who had been left all day, but I know how to get back in their good books, out comes the fresh roasted chicken I just happened to pick up at the servo. All was soon forgiven and it was time for a quiet cuppa.
I will try to get pics of the outfits tomorrow as it is bedtime in this home goodnite to you all. Hugs, Gail xox.

Dad with Isabella (about 10 months) and Mum with her Papillion, Billy (William Tell). I think the photo was taken in either 2000 or very early 2001.

Wednesday A Quiet Day

2006-06-14T17:29:00.000+10:00

This mountain range is the one I have to cross whenever I go to Brisbane. It never ceases to amaze me with its beauty. If you put the window down you are greeted with a chorus of bell birds singing. I saw a magnificent wedge tailed eagle yesterday soaring high above the cliffs. These mountains bring me peace, I dont know why, I just accept it.

Cunningham's Gap is a pass over the Great Dividing Range between the Darling Downs and Brisbane areas. It passes through the Main Range National Park, and on a clear day can be seen from Brisbane. In 1827 Allan Cunningham set out from the upper Hunter River to explore inside the Dividing Range, discovering the Darling Downs; returning in 1828 from Brisbane to discover Cunninghams Gap. Cunningham travelled on the right hand side of the Gap whereas the highway today runs on the lefthand side from Aratula. My information came from HERE.

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Forest, Cunninghams Gap. Conrad Martens 1856. Oil on Canvas.

Photos maybe

2006-06-13T16:59:00.000+10:00

At last the pictures of the cards I purchased at the woolshed and the sky showing winter is upon us. I have just returned from seeing the specialists in Brisbane and the upshot is I dont have ms, so my dear friends I am about to return to the workforce,hopefully I can obtain a position as a pathology girl or something in a lab.I let my nursing registration go 13yrs ago thinking at the time I would never be well enough to return. But Life plays games and here I am going back to the work force.I have a responsibility to mum and dad so I will probably look for part time work for a start.Keep your fingers crossed.
Have to keep this short got to do my chores and the day has nearly gone Hugs to you all and special prayers for Connies Mum and connie

The woolshed

2006-06-11T14:25:00.000+10:00

Hi you all hope your w/end is going well.
Saturday saw me driving with mum and dad to an exhibition (arty & crafty) at a woolshed located on an awesome property called Pikedale,as my camera decided to die I am afraid You will just have to believe me when I say this property is magnificent.
Although the weather was bleak to say the least, we packed up the dogs made a thermos and headed down to Stanthorpe and then turned west on the road to Texas(Australia) about 33 klms down the road we turned off into a private property (Sheep station) after driving past the magnificent old homestead,which was in immaculate shape we headed thru the property about a further 800metres to the woolshed. They had catering tents and a band playing,it was when you got inside the shed where the exhibition was you felt the aura of the shed and the smells of times gone by.They had some great works of art, paintings, wood sculpture,jewellery,tin sculptures and beautiful woollen products. I am afraid I could only afford the card sets which I have copied and some raffle tickets( guess I have not won no-one has rung) well we enjoyed ourselves and thats what life is about. We took the long way home, thru some very lovely landscapes and over the dry creeks, we only saw one kangaroo and I stopped and helped a tortoise get off the road,oh yes we did see two beautiful wedge tailed eagles soaring high above us and about twenty pelicans enjoying the thermals. We were tired and ready to relax for the nite all cosy with the fire burning.
Today Sunday was get up late, cook a roast dinner and stay warm as those nasty westerly winds are blowing and go right thru you.I have added a couple of pics of the clouds today ,I swear they are full of ice.
I hope you have a great week coming and as I have appointments in Bris I may not get to you all , but please know you are all in my prayers
blogger will not give me my photos back so be patient

Something For Everyone

2006-06-08T22:41:00.000+10:00

"THOSE WHO TOUCH OUR LIVES"

Every special person who touches our life
Leaves their own unique mark on our heart.
A mark which can never be chissled away,
Even if the years eventually pull us apart.
We can take on their expressions as such,
The more we share of ourselves together.
It's those little things about another person
Which can remain a part in us forever.
People who we have met throughout our life
Become a part of the person we are today.
We learn and we grow from the relationships;
Each one touching us, in its own special way,
We laugh about spending too much time together,
When we think we have become like each other.
But it just shows how much we've been touched
By the relationship we have found with another.
Those special people who can touch our lives
Are like precious jewels amongst life's treasures;
They shine on us and leave a lasting impression;
An unique mark on our heart;
A gift without measure.

Writer unknown.

Well my week has been different, I dropped KH off at his mums on the Gold Coast and then spent what was left of the w/end with my daughter and family. Monday was the usual mundane house hold chores, Tuesday was wood delivery day and do some work in the old barn.Wednesday was cook a nice lunch and try to get my thoughts together,(It must be in the air) and have a cuppa with my neighbour.Thursday was ironing and electrician here to sort out phone points. During all this I am trying to make sense of the direction my life is heading and where i really want to be at this age and time, will let you all know when i know (if I find the answers)
Dad is going well and is putting on a brave front, I love this man who has been a real influence in my life and my families lives.
KH was such a dear man to help me thru the past weeks, he will never really know how much he helped me. A true friend.
Tomorrow is Friday and I am going to Brisbane with my neighbours friend to see my neighbour Bob, who is recovering from lung surgery, he is doing it tough so hopefully we can brighten his day.
Then comes Saturday and Sunday, we will just have to wait and see.
"Hugs to you all"

Birthdays

2006-06-02T22:32:00.000+10:00

I was giving some thought to my next post, when I suddenly decided I would like to start a birthday book. I am not sure how to go about this, so I need your help(please) My idea is to some how have a register have all my closest Blogging friends to enable me to remember their special day with a card.

Today was an interesting day, first off dad took off for his morning walk and I went down to pick him up ,then it was off to the hardware store to buy some hessian and trellis to put some protection around the plants that are suffering from the frosts.Then it was off to the landscape providers to get some more sandstone rocks for a garden edge.
by now everyone was looking for their lunch, mixed grill was on for today.
After cleaning up it was time to do a rice pudding my family who were comiing to stay the W /end.
I just had time to sneakout and rake up the leaves before taking mum down to the raffles at the local club.
My family arrived safely and this home was filled with the beautiful noises of young and old all trying to be heard. The rice pudding seemed to go down well.
I am sitting here doing this post quite late, enjoying a cup of green tea, before I go to bed.
Tomorrow I take KH back to the airport as he has to go home,I believe I shall miss his company, as it will be a long trip and I am the driver I will saynite to you all,
May you all have a truly beautiful W/end, Hugs

More Pics Of Treasures

2006-06-01T21:27:00.000+10:00

These are some more treasures, around my house.

More Pics Of Home

2006-06-01T21:03:00.000+10:00

Here are some more pics of some of those old homes, enjoy.

Wednesday So Cold

2006-05-31T17:19:00.000+10:00

Well, if jack frost keeps these cold mornings up, I will have to hibernate. But the beauty of cold mornings is the lovely clear day that follows. KH and I took the camera and went for a tour of my home town, taking some photos to show my friends on the net. I do hope you enjoy.

Tuesday Itis

2006-05-30T19:47:00.000+10:00

Well after such a hectic day yesterday, it was so nice to be able to veg out today, I gave myself permission to go back and have a further 2hrs lay in(such bliss)
Then it was time for lunch just a good old braised steak with sweet potato mash and tomatoes topped with spinach and holandaise sauce, also whole beans wrapped in ham. It went down well,tempting dad to keep his weight up (and succeeding)
After cleaning the kitchen I did a rice custard and prepared the schnitzels for tomorrows lunch.
Now I took some time out and took a walk around the house taking random pics of things that mean alot to me most belonged to my grandmother or mum,The chinese lady was my aunties.
The temperature is plummeting here and the trees are looking sad,leaves everywhere, but such lovely colors. I do hope where you are living is bringing you as much joy as Warwick does me.

Memories A Special Brother

2006-05-30T15:01:00.000+10:00

Ronald Bruce Bowman 1949-2001

Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away into
the next room. Whatever we
were to each,that we are still.
call me by my old familiar
name.speak to me in the
easy way which you always used.

Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed
together.play,smile,think of me,
pray for me. let my name be
the household word that it
always was.let it be spoken
without effort.life means all
that it ever meant.it is the same
as it ever was;there is absolutely
unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of your mind
because I am out of your sight?
I am but waiting, for an interval,
somewhere very near
just around the corner...
All is well.
nothing is past,
nothing is lost.
One
Brief
Moment
And All Will Be
As It Was Before
Only Better,Infinately Happier
And Forever
We Will All Be One Together

Carmelite monestry
Tallow- Waterford

nostalgia

2006-05-29T21:29:00.000+10:00

Vesper Bell Hicks & Norman McLelland

My Grandparents Wedding Day

Vesper Bell at 16

Mt Mother

Vesper Joyce McLelland

(Rex Wilfed Bowman)

Wedding Day 14th February 1949

Gail (me) Wedding Day and bridesmaids

5th September 1970

Christopher and Nicole Elswyk

Wedding day 31st July 1999

Friday surprise

2006-05-26T22:28:00.000+10:00

If God took time to
create beauty,how can
we be too busy to
appreciate it?
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After another chilly night I did not want to leave the warmth of my cosy bed, but apart of nature calling, and my sweet companion Aussie, putting his cold nose to my ear... there were too many chores to be done. Up and in to it, vacuum, mop and dust. We have visitors coming this weekend, so I needed to air rooms and make beds. In between, I checked the plants for frost damage, I found my poor frangipani is looking very poorly (even though I covered her).... any suggestions?

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My dear KH went off to town to attend to business and on his return presented me with a lovely pendant. A blue saphire (my birthstone) it made me feel so special. He is going home to Adelaide on the 4th June. He has been such a help to me through Dad's ordeal and I have become very close to this man, time will tell a new story perhaps in the future.

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Dad has been studying the papers he was given yesterday, re: the radium treatment, and I am having trouble keeping him focused. Perhaps the visitors will relax him.
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Have a sunny weekend, smile, and hugs to all my friends.... xox

Thursday

2006-05-25T20:32:00.000+10:00

A quick trip to Brissy and back, 270klms, dad had his prelimery appointment for his radium therapy, it all went well, the people who dealt with him were quiet calm and new their jobs. we go back on the 18th June to start his 6weeks treatment.
Now ,last night we had a ripper of a frost, -4 degrees thankfully the fire was giving off its beautiful heat, this morning the air con took over and warmed the house for breaky.I had put a stock pot on with chunks of chicken to make the stock for a chicken soup with chinese noodles,so this am before heading out to Brissy,I added the finishing spices and vegies, on our return this pm we were greeted with the smell permeating thru the house.Nothing like homemade soup and crunchy fresh bread.
I am a little tired this pm, so please accept my appologies for not visiting your posts will catch up with all my friends tomorrow Friday

A Good day

2006-05-23T21:50:00.000+10:00

I believe we all have a greater purpose to our lives than merely existing day to day --- a greater purpose, even,than filling our own lives with light and joy. Each of us, in our own unique way, is called to let our light shine.

Thomas Kincade….

Today was one of those days where I achieved a lot. The old barn was calling and I got stuck into replacing the plaster on the walls. I am using the plaster I removed even though it is a little fragile (cost effective) and I succcessfully put back three panels. Tomorrow hopefully I will be able to get into some more. Dad and KH put the house name up which Nics painted for her grandpop and it looks good.
Hugs, Gail xox.

Something special for my friends...

2006-05-21T19:42:00.000+10:00

God Always Answers Prayer
Rev. Robert H. Schuller
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When the idea is not right, God says, "No."
No-when the idea is not the best. No-when the idea is absolutely wrong. No-when though it may help you, it could create problems for someone else.
When the time is not right, God says, "Slow."
What a catastrophe it would be if God answered every prayer at the snap of your fingers. Do you know what would happen? God would become your servant, not your master. Suddenly God would be working for you instead of you working for God.
Remember: God's delays are not God's denials. God's timing is perfect. Patience is what we need in prayer.
When you are not right, God says, "Grow."
The selfish person has to grow in unselfishness.The cautious person must grow in courage. The timid person must grow in confidence. The dominating person must grow in sensitivity.The critical person must grow in tolerance. The negative person must grow in positive attitudes. The pleasure-seeking person must grow in compassion for suffering people.
When everything is all right, God says, "Go."
Then miracles happen: A hopeless alcoholic is set free!A drug addict finds release ! A doubter becomes as a child in his belief. Diseased tissue responds to treatment, and healing begins.The door to your dream suddenly swings open and there stands God saying, "Go!"
If the Lord has you on hold... hold on!If the Lord has said "NO" to you... thank Him! If the Lords is molding your heart and mind... go with His change!If the Lord opens doors that you have asking Him to open... Praise Him!Be blessed wherever you are in your life today! God has His hands on the situation!

YOU SAY GOD SAYS BIBLE VERSES

You say: "It's impossible"
God says: All things are possible (Luke 18:27)

You say: "I'm too tired"
God says: I will give you rest (Matthew 11:28-30)

You say: "Nobody really loves me"
God says: I love you (John 3:16 & John 3:34 )

You say: "I can't go on"
God says: My grace is sufficient (II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15)

You say: "I can't figure things out"
God says: I will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6)

You say: "I can't do it"
God says: You can do all things (Philippians 4:13)

You say: "I'm not able"
God says: I am able (II Corinthians 9:8)

You say: "It's not worth it"
God says: It will be worth it (Roman 8:28 )

You say: "I can't forgive myself"
God says: I Forgive you (I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)

You say: "I can't manage"
God says: I will supply all your needs (Philippians 4:19)

You say: "I'm afraid"
God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear (II Timothy 1:7)

You say: "I'm always worried and frustrated"
God says: Cast all your cares on ME (I Peter 5:7)

You say: "I'm not smart enough"
God says: I give you wisdom (I Corinthians 1:30)

You say: "I feel all alone"
God says: I will never leave you or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5)

The Trip To Killarney

2006-05-19T23:08:00.000+10:00

Well what a day, we headed off to show Kh some of the area and to get dad and mum out into the fresh air. Killarney is 36kms east of Warwick (the number three in orange on the map above), it is a small township at the top of one of the many beautiful valleys around here.
The main place I showed KH was the Queen Mary falls, a very serene area, in a national park. We left mum and dad at the lovely park, and walked the 1.5kms to the falls, the natural beauty was enveloping. We saw a lovely grey wallaby watching us intently and the bird life was magical to listen to. The falls were flowing far under capacity but majestic all the same. The cliff face opposite us was like a huge pipe organ. After hauling each other back up the mountain, it was off to lunch at Spring Creek only a further 10kms up on the plateau. The view is breathtaking and the food scrumptious. After our meal we headed down to the condamine gorge road.
This was just to show Kh the beginning of the river, but we ended up going home this way. It consisted of 14 river crossings and a rather hairy old road... as this was my first time 4x4, I found myself driving extremely cautiously. It was exillerating to say the least, thank goodness we are in drought, as I would be an absolute wreck doing this if the river was flowing even at a quarter of its capacity. But we got home safe and sound and Kh being the true gentleman that he is congratulated me on a job well done. Tomorrow will be a nice quiet day catching up on the gardening. Have a truly magical weekend with the ones you love. Hugs, Gail xox

My beautiful daughter

2006-05-19T16:34:00.000+10:00

this was nics on the day of her formal, quite a stunner.

Busy Busy

2006-05-18T20:01:00.000+10:00

I find I an unable to post every day, life in Warwick is hectic to say the least. I have had tradesmen at the house all this week, mainly an electrician putting in the wiring in the barn, but also a new porch light. He has become a friend to us all and I think he enjoys the luncheons he gets when he does work for us. My friend KH has been a great help to dad, they have achieved alot of the smaller fixer up jobs together, and I believe dad enjoys his company(as do I). We went to the Goldcoast to met KH's family, they seem decent folk, we got on well. On the return trip we stopped in all the second hand shops and the nursery's... I bought the frog bath which is fantastic in the front garden, KH bought me a beautiful green vase from a second hand dealer and I acquired the porcelin frog from another nursery. We had a lovely break. Tomorrow we are all going for a drive into the country, up to Killarney and the beautiful Queen Mary Falls. We thought we would take some time to show Kh the area.

Mothers Day w/end

2006-05-14T19:30:00.000+10:00

Wow, what a great weekend.... It started with my daughter and family coming up from the coast, then after a yummy homemade lasagna, fresh salad and icecream for my two babies..... we settled the littlies into bed and headed of to the pics. The choice (by the guys) was Mission Imposssible 3. Well I am geting old... I jumped out of my seat 6 million times and crinched and sunk down in my chair. I had forgotten what action movies were like. Up later sunday morning, everyone enjoyed a sleep in, I organised the breakies... then set to getting a roast dinner and apple sponge for desert ready. As everything went as planned, we sat down to a lovely mothers day luncheon, after which all everyone wanted to do was relax. My family headed back down to the coast about 5pm leaving me a very happy mum. Thankyou God for blessing me with these kids. Pop and greatgrandma are totally exhausted, but in a beautiful way. I have posted some pics of the beautiful statue and hand made card I was given. Hugs, Gail xox

Its another week to be thankful for...

2006-05-09T09:38:00.000+10:00

Hello dear friends.... Firstly an update on dad, he is going well, doing odd jobs around the house,with KH and My help He does tire easily and is learning to pace himself. We have had quite a few visitors which has been good for him and alot of phone messages as most of our family still live down south. I have posted some pics of the latest improvements to this old home. Well the temp is finally dropping and jack frost has paid a few calls... I have been cooking winter meals and the log fire has been burning brightly. I do luv the colder months, its snuggle up weather, and I have someone to snuggle up with again. Mum is going about her knitting and sewing, she hasnt got back into her patch work yet. We go to Toowoomba tomorrow to meet with the radium guy and then I think it will be Brisbane for the treatment. Thankyou again for the support network you have all put together. Hugs Gail

The W\end

2006-04-30T18:31:00.000+10:00

The family arrived safely, and with them chaos reigns albeit nice. Saturday saw us all up and at it early, it was off to Toowoomba to see Poppy, who was excited to see his great grand children and they him. As they had both been very worried about him (to quote them). After hearing dad was to be discharged today to the unit with mum, we went to lunch, (sizzlers) then mum and nics and chris headed back to the hospital to pick up dad. I headed back to Warwick with the children, 5mins down the road and they were snoozing.
Many phone calls had to be answered and made, it would seem that dads cancer wasnt all surgically removed. So I had to inform all our family to allow the ones interstate time to adjust to this news. My father is going great and has a beautiful attitude to this hiccup which has occured.

Photos are of my car (taken by nic in hers) on our way to see Dad.

dads pics

2006-04-28T19:00:00.000+10:00

Hello everyone, just a short note to let you know that dad has come thru the second post op day albeit very tired. The pics do not do him justice, but he can only improve from here..... He thanks you all for your prayers as do the rest of my family, hugs, Gail xox

2006-04-26T18:24:00.000+10:00

Well time has just flown. My weekend was good, I achieved a few chores that needed doing and then drove to the coast to visit a dear friend who recently lost her husband, she is such an artistic person. She has transformed her home (in an upmarket complex) into a picture perfect house... she just has the nack, I call it therapy. We all tend to get busy (no idol time) after the loss of a loved one. We had four fantastic hours together catching up and just enjoying each others company. Then it was off to the airport to pick up a friend who will be staying with me whilst dad is in hospital. I have posted some pics of my latest bits and pieces. Yesteday we went to Towoomba and settled mum and dad in the unit I had organised for them for the next 7 days. As it is an hrs drive from Warwick to Towoomba, I felt mum would be more comfortable close to dad... dad loved the unit, it is big and airy and has cable television. Then I headed home to look after the canine family. Yesterday I got a desperate call from mum, she had left dads xrays in the back of the car, so off I went breaking a few speed limits to get them to the hospital on time. Dad went to theatre at 3pm and came out about 7-7.30pm. I would like to thank you all again for your prayers and thoughts. When I find out more information I will post to let you know how he is..

Friday another week passed

2006-04-21T21:58:00.000+10:00

Hello Dear friends, My week has come and gone, I have been busy helping dad concrete the front drive entrance and finish off the back garden. Life isn't mundane or boring, every day is a challenge, an adventure, I find the time that I once took for granted is now so precious.
We have completed all the tests preparing dad for his surgery, he himself has prepared himself as well as he can, and I have deliberately been giving them the space they require as husband and wife. My love for them both cannot prevent the fear and worry they are both experiencing, but when I give them a hug or a kiss, they feel the invisible cloak of love I have knitted in my heart and slowly wrap them in. As with all people facing their own mortality, my father has been very testy and I believe this is their way of protecting us. They think if they are narky we will somehow not hurt as much, (pushing away love ones) but I assured dad the more he pushed the closer I will become. Guess what things are back to normal, we have achieved alot this last week and have alot more projects in the pipeline (positive thoughts). Our days are still very warm and the autumn does not want to arrive, we are still getting temperatures 28-30 degrees. But I am not complaining as it enables me to have a little more time to prepare the garden. I have a quiet w/end planned before the next week arrives. Thankyou all for your prayers and thoughts for my dad and our family, for those of you who are facing your own trials in life my love and prayers go to you. I have added some pics of our achievements this week.

Our family

2006-04-15T20:33:00.000+10:00

It has been a lovely week with my daughter and grandchildren. We just did nothing but alot of it. Last Thursday dad went to the surgeon and is booked in to have the mass removed on the 26th April. He will be in hospital for 5-7 days, then he has to undertake a 6 week course of radiation. We as a family are all pulling together to get him thru this, but any extra prayers would be welcome. Nics husband Chris arrived for the w\end and we had a busy early am hiding easter bunnies eggs. I had time out with Nics at the 'gem' show and Chris and Nics took the kids to see Ice Age 2.

Monday, Tuesday and ahead of myself...

2006-04-11T23:25:00.000+10:00

The w/end flew, I got down to finishing some of those chores that get put to the back off the to do list. In my case the ironing( I loathe it) but usually make a point of not letting last weeks meld with next weeks. The garden had to have the mulch turned over and a new lot placed down to cover the winter months. I cooked up some gluten free meals for the week and made my dad an old fashioned stew (he loves them) I love the cooler weather it seems to agree with me. I have a lovely man in my life, we are friends at the moment but I feel very special, my smile has returned and my heart feels light instead of heavy. I know what is destined to be will be. But with all else that is going on in my life, I felt I wanted to share this small piece of happiness with you. Monday and my beautiful daughter and grandchildren and jack (the spoilt pooch) arrived, I have them for a whole week to spoil and love. I had forgotten how much luggage is involved , when holidaying with little ones, once settled, my mother gave them their gifts she had brought back from NZ. Nicole was given a lovely silver fern pendant, Isabella a toy penguin and Harry a kiwi (flightless bird) also she had two books which told children stories from that part of the world. My mother also gave Nics (our pet name) a book on scrapbooking ( a manual really) Nicole helped me finish off the weed mat under the rocks around the lawn and then she baked a scrumptious chocolate cake, for her children and grandparents. It was oozing with lovely chocolate icing and everyone enjoyed it.
Tuesday after a quiet morning we did the grocey shop and browsed thru the warwick second hand stores Nic got some wool at an absolute bargain price, mohair 12 skeins for $6.50 the lot and then some handwoven wool skeins for $7.00 she was really happy, then I took my treasures to the pictures to see, Shaggy dog (their choice) I thought it would give Nics time out and me some quality time with the grandchildren. They enjoyed the movie but it was just a wee bit old for them (I thought) but they behaved beautifully. Tomorrow Wednesday, nics and I are going for a drive around this city I live in and takesome photos of some of the old homes and gardens to share with you.

Till tomorrow, keep smiling.

Pictures will be added later....

Busy Little Bee

2006-04-06T18:11:00.000+10:00

Our eyes are focused to all we see,
Our minds to all we comprehend.
Our hands to all we touch and feel,
But our hearts are filled with happiness, sorrow and love.
The greater being love.

Well I was up and in to it early. I had planted ten lavender plants by 6.30am and then placed the potash around the roses (to help with blackspot) then it was breaky. Yhe builder arrived at 8.30 am to put the lining on the verandah roof, it now looks finished. I have to put the hooks back for all my hanging plants and it will then be a cosy retreat. I put up another panel in the barn and dad and I cut some noggings to fit the plaster to.

Then surprise surprise I received a call from a long lost friend (we did our nurse training together). I have mentioned before I am trying to get us all together for one last time. It is a challenge to find everyone, but she makes one less, it was fantastic talking to her.

Well then to top my day we had a visit from the previous owner of this old house, she popped in for a stickybeak. I didnt mind as we are quiet proud of our achievements so far.

I hope you all have had as great a day as I and may tomorrow be even better.

Many apologies Mum, for being tardy in posting your daily entry... love you...xx

A Good Day

2006-04-03T13:25:00.000+10:00

From the very start I had a feeling today would be ok. It was a beautiful crisp morning, and the air smelt fresh and clean. I got straight into the old house chores, finishing them in record time (just don't look to closely), then it was off to the doctor with dad. Well he walked in a little apprehensive and walked out straight as a bean pole. The doctor had made an appointment for him to see the plastic surgeon on this Wednseday, but the other news, was the mass seemed to be contained. It did the trick, he hadn't been given a death sentence, but a glimmer of hope. I could have hugged his doctor for putting the sparkle back into an old mans eyes. Well off we went to the shops and got the insulation for the old barn.... tomorrow we wil endevour to start putting the lining back on the walls. Tomorrow will look even better than today, I believe we can see the best in even the worst times. I have posted pics of my bedroom recently finished(wear sunglasses lol) also the quilt my mum made, and the back verandah with the blinds I hung, making it more cosy. The picture above is my little witch hanging in my bedroom window.

The top pictures of the patio are the before,

whilst the bottom pictures are the afters....

Bigger picture below.

xox

Saturday

2006-04-01T20:38:00.000+10:00

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After some much needed rain.. a truly beautiful day. The air is crisp and fresh, the sun is shining, and I am here. The news for me appears to be good, but I have to wait a little longer to see the doctor. On the other hand, my dads report has come back positive, to a rather nasty melanoma. We see the doctors Monday and decisions will be made re the treatment. He has resigned himself to the fact that if it is deemed to be he has had an excellent innings. Each day to us all (on this earth is a blessing)to have had 82 wonderful ones is a miracle.

I will keep you all posted.

This saying is I feel appropriate for today:

What is meant to be, will always find a way.

Thursday

2006-03-30T14:47:00.000+10:00

Firstly... My heartfelt thanks to you all

for your wishes and prayers.

I have had the MRI, and now await the results. Dad is also awaiting his biopsy results, but in our family, one does not dwell on yesterday. I have been organising the window for the barn, and removing more panels, and yes more egg cartons. Also, I have been tracing old friends who I did my nursing training with some 37 yrs ago, though it has not been easy. I would love to organize a reunion for us all.... yep I think I can do this. This following little prayer was penned for me by an old and dear friend, I thought I would like to share it with you all.

I opened up the e-mail,

a little prayer I found.

I send it back to you

with love that is profound.

You see when one is feeling low,

it is a lovely prayer.

A friend is such a precious thing,

not found everywhere.

I'm glad there is a precious one

for they are hard to find.

When I tell you,thats it's you,

I know you will not mind.

So remember that I too care

and pray for dear you too.

That god will give you what you need

in all you have to do.

Now here are some photos taken from the area that I live........

wednesdays In advance

2006-03-28T20:01:00.000+10:00

I have to drive to toowomba today one and a quarter hours nth.I have to undergo an MRI on my spinal cord,to cut a long story short, I was diagnosed with MS 14 yrs ago and recently I had an MRI on my brain which the neuro surgeon who I was referred to , said showed no plaques and therefore he doubted I have MS, so I now have to have the spinal MRI and then see a professor who specialises in MS . So after 14 yrs we still dont know the reason for my symptoms. but enough about me . My dearest father is to undergo a biopsy under a scan to his face where a nasty lump has appeared,he chose to take his holiday to NZ and face this when he came back. As he has had a few melanoma's removed from other areas , he is a little apprehensive. So my dear friends could I ask you to say a prayer for my dad for today. thankyou

You will never guess

2006-03-28T14:02:00.000+10:00

Up early, decided to attack the barn again, all the existing plaster lining had to be pulled down to enable me to insulate the walls. Everything was going well... I had removed 1/2 a dozen sheets and was about to remove no 7 when I began to move it away from the wall... then egg cartons (not just a few) started raining down on me! I just sat on my but and laughed lol

Decided enough for today , so todddled off and got my octogenerians their lunch and then thought I would share this find with you all. I am wondering what is behind the other panels yet to be removed lol. The tool shed is well on the way thanks to dad, and I finally got the sunport up for the car (now winter is upon us soon). Few, what a day!

Its Monday

2006-03-27T15:14:00.000+10:00

Another Monday, or so I thought.

after doing all those usual chores,

out for a walk in my garden I went.

As I was smelling my roses

and doing the routine check for bugs,

imagine my delight to find this beautiful twin rose,

to me so rare. Two flowers coming from one bud,

a freak of nature or just a beautiful creation.

Has anyone witnesed this before?

More photos of New Zealand...

2006-03-25T17:00:00.000+10:00

The photos are all from Doubtful Sound...
More information about beautiful waters
and surrounding areas can be found here.
The photos are all of different places
in the beautful Doubtiful Sound
and are listed below, left to right, top to bottom.

Bauza Island
Channel Hall Arm
Crooked Arm
Fergerson Island
Hall Arm
Seymor Island
TeAwaatu Channel
Vegetation Hall

I have included two maps below...
the first is the bottom of New Zealand's South Island..
and the second is of the Doubtful Sound area
so you can get a good idea on it's size.

Its Thursday

2006-03-23T15:56:00.000+10:00

Yesterday I went to Bisbane to pickup my Octerian travellers,

Mum and Dad. I must say it was great to see their smiling faces,

they had an unforgetable holiday, even though they had caught a cold.

The trip home was full of chatter, both of them eager to fill me in on what they enjoyed the most. It was just so lovely to see and hear them so full of life. I have included some pics of Milford sound.

Just one of the many magical places they saw. They were equally excited in seeing all I had accomplished whilst they were away. This morning I let them rest and spoilt them with a cuppa in bed. I had no sooner done this and in come visitors, me still in my jammies (what does one do) well I put the kettle back on and enjoyed their company. After they left, I got dressed (nothing like being casual), a good time was had by all.

beautiful moment in time

2006-03-21T22:50:00.000+10:00

I would like to share this photo of my two grandchildren each one very special to me, they are picking daisies for their mother and me. These children fill my heart with love and hope for our families future. Their childhood is so precious and passes to fast.

photos from my album

2006-03-21T22:17:00.000+10:00

Sunset

Kingparrot

Tides out

Firey Sunset

The Rock I found At Eighty Mile Beach WA

2006-03-21T15:58:00.000+10:00

I saw a lady and babe in this rock
A different angle Or could it be someone praying
Love isnt love until you give it away.
What do you see in my little beach rock

Some sayings to ponder

2006-03-21T15:45:00.000+10:00

The secret of health for both body and mind,is not to mourn the past, not to worry about the future, nor to anticipate troubles, but to live the present moment wisely and ernestly. Buddha
"Present Moment" because that is the only moment for us to live. If you miss the present moment, you miss your appointment with life.

As long as you always hold someone in your heart, you will never lose them.

Love is a fruit in season at all times,
and within the reach of every hand.
Mother Theresa

Another Friday

2006-03-17T16:03:00.000+10:00

Today is Friday, I have been just veging out the last two days, everything is on go slow, the old bones need some rest, so they got it . I have been scanning family photos to an album and as the computer is relatively new to me it is taking me some time to achieve, but I am determined to finish what I have started.In between renovating the house looking after my dear parents and trying to stay sane(not Really)
I had a phone call from my parents who are having an absolute ball. I recommend to you all, the travel people I used,(thanks to nicole). If you are planning on touring NZ, their address is (NZ Travel and Information Centre) GPO Box 904Brisbane Qld4001 phne 0061732213388.
I hope you all have a great w/ end keep smiling Gail

happiness

2006-03-15T11:10:00.000+10:00

I really liked this, so thought I would share it.

For those like me who require reading aids it says.

"When one door of happiness closes, another opens,

but often we look so long at the closed door, that we do not see

the one that has been opened for us".

Time flies when your having fun

2006-03-15T08:43:00.000+10:00

Well now has my life gone up a level or what .The w\end was full on with my daughter and family visiting.Then my best friend and her mum arrived,so the house was full. My son-in-law Christopher and I managed to get the floor base laid in the barn, then we placed my latest statue in her nook in the yard,but we ran out of time to nail the floor down.I can do that at my pace.When everyone was about to leave on Sunday ,I get a phone call from my late brothers son,could he visit,well what do yo say! He was staying on the gold coast with his mum and sister and just wanted to catch up.As he was without transport, off I go 2hrs down and 2hs back, but it was nice seeing him again, he had to be back by Tuesday nite. After my specialists appointment, I headed off again to the gold coast,the boys in the back(they didnt mind all this tripping about).This morning not even a sleep in, the car had to be in for its service by 8am. I am now taking a breath before I start Mondays house chores, by the w\end I should have caught up.Ausssie and Billy are taking it all in their stride, they havent had time to miss the parents, the pic are of the floor and the statue.Now to round it all up, let me just say it's grand to be alive, may your god bless you and smile Bye for now gail

A New day

2006-03-08T17:33:00.000+10:00

Thankyou to those who wished me sweet dreams, I think I was out to it for 10 hrs. but life goes on and today we had the new blinds fitted to this gracious old dame, whilst that was being accomplished I set too and emptied the old barn of eveything to enable me to get stuck into laying the floor. It was a big day to say the least, but I feel pretty good that I accomplished it, I have enclosed some pics of todays achievements.Tomorrow I start on the floor. My parents were like two youngsters heading off, I know they will have a great trip ,when they rturn on the22nd I will post some pics for you to share. well its off to rest now. have a great week ,just smile.

On their Way

2006-03-06T16:33:00.000+10:00

We left Warwick early and had an uneventful trip to Brisbane airport where I saw them safely into the departure lounge ,gave them a talking to about behaving themselves and said my goodbyes, by this time the boys were getting restless.By the time I arrived home I was ready for a nice cuppa and sit down, so sorry for this short message , but I am very tired ,as are the boys.

Its a dogs world

2006-03-05T12:32:00.000+10:00

Today is overcast and good cuddle up weather, after a lovely lie in and a quick breaky, it was time to take a walk around the garden to check out any damage from the wind, happy to report all is well. I cannot wait for all the plants, shrubs and trees to grow to there full heights. While my parents are away I plan to lay a floor in the old barn (storage area behind the old shop) this will eventually be my guest quarters fully self contained. it is a challenge but will be achieved in time. I will post the work inprogress and you can all watch the transformation, from old barn to comfortable guest quarters. the photos are of my two lityle companions one is an australian silky terrier (aussie) the other a papillion or butterfly ear dog(billy) as you can see they ae spoilt rotten and rightly so as they look out for us all. I have also posted pics of this old house showing the work we have achieved so far, The long building is the barn I will be working in. Time to get my parents lunch, stay happy (smile)

The photo

2006-03-04T15:17:00.000+10:00

The photo of the incredible sunset (serenity personified) ws taken by the one and only nicole I felt I wanted to share it with my new found friends, the verse was off a card given to me by Ken. hello to you all ,my parents are getting excited and looking younger to boot , I will be driving them down to Brisbane early Monday as it is a five hour return trip for me I will be taking the dogs for company.I have done alot of driving and this does not faze me. My granddaughter had a truly great party, Nicole sent me pics.life is remakable these days, with a click of a camera and the push of some buttons, in minutes I view what would have taken weeks not so long ago.I am yet to visit you all ,but thankyou to those of you who posted those kind words for me.

You and Me

2006-03-04T14:58:00.000+10:00

Once upon a time our hearts fell in love
and we began our life together. The mountains we've
climbed and the stars we've had to reach for,
have only strengthened the love we share.
Side by side, we've lived the dream, braved the storms ,
and written a tale of forever love.

2006-03-03T17:18:00.000+10:00

This is a sample of my piece of heaven I am creating on earth

Another Day Lifes great, I woke up

2006-03-03T08:34:00.000+10:00

today is alot cooler in sth west queensland, we didnt get the rain predicted, but the temperature drop is very welcome. I was snooping at my daughters latest posting , they have been very busy cleaning up the yard ready for the birthday party , thank goodness the rain appears to have eased. I cant make it down but my beautiful granddaughter will be far to busy with her friends and being the centre of attention to miss me. I am going to have another small party when they all come up next w/end. My parents are off to New Zealand for 17 days and I give them a medal for it as they are both in their eighties.I would love to be as active at their age.My day is just unfolding, but I know it will be a good one.I just have to smile.

2006-03-02T16:14:00.000+10:00

Where
there is sorrow
there is holy
ground.
Does this mean our earth is a very holy place?

So True

2006-02-25T10:21:00.000+10:00

Happiness is
beneficial for
the body but'
it is grief
that developes the
powers of
the mind.

Marcel Proust
Bn October 7th 1871

Some special thoughts for you...

2006-02-23T20:15:00.000+10:00

Today

Look deeply at the dreams that are brightest and truest in your heart.....

Tomorrow

Protect and nurture them as the priceless gifts they are....

Always

Encourage them to grow ever-larger, ever-stronger....

Because nothing is more truly you than the wishes and dreams you carry in you heart.